Online Therapy and Marriage Counseling Across California
Your struggle affects the people you love. So does your progress.
Therapy for men and women across California for ADHD, Anger, Anxiety, Depression, and others. 25 years of counseling experience. By secure video. Many major insurance plans accepted.
California LMFT 45318 · Counseling since 1998 · As seen on the Dr. Gina show
Listed by GuideDoc among marriage counselors serving San Diego, September 2026.
I work with men and women, and with couples. Many people have put this off for years. They come in tired of the same trouble at work, the same arguments at home, and the same promises to do better. If that is you, you are in the right place.
What I help with
ADHD
Missed deadlines, lost keys, a short fuse, and a spouse who feels unheard. Adult ADHD shows up at work and at home. We build practical systems that fit how your mind works.
Anger Management
Anger that arrives fast and costs you later. We work on catching it early and saying what you mean without the damage.
Anxiety, Panic
Racing thoughts, a tight chest, and nights without sleep. We work on skills that settle the body and tools that quiet the worry.
Depression
Low energy, pulling away from people you love, going through the motions. We look at what is driving it and build a plan forward, one step at a time.
Trauma
Old wounds that still show up as anger, distance, or fear. The work is careful and paced, and you set the pace.
Childhood Trauma
What happened when you were young can still run your reactions today. We build a timeline of your early years and work through it at your pace.
Addiction
Drinking or using more than you want to, and promises to cut back that do not hold. We start with an honest conversation and goals you choose.
When one person in a home gets steadier, the whole home feels it. That is why a marriage and family therapist works with individuals.
For husbands and fathers
Strength under control. Faithful at home, steady at work, and honest about what needs to change. A man can be a warrior for his family without being at war with them. The work here is practical: what happens in a real week, what sets you off, and what to do differently on Monday.
ADHD at work: a short talk
As seen on the Dr. Gina show
Mark Spurlock, LMFT on the Dr. Gina show. ADHD has been part of his individual practice since the 2000s.
About Mark Spurlock, LMFT
I am a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, license 45318. I have been counseling since 1998 and licensed since 2008. I work one-on-one with men and women, and with husbands and wives, including premarital couples, from a Christian perspective.
I hold a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology from California State University, Fullerton. As a seminary adjunct I taught marriage and family therapy graduate students. I teach a host of skills for your Marriage and Family, including Emotional Mastery, Healthy Agreements, Healthy Communication, and Radar Skills. Emotional Mapping is how I trace anger and resentment to the wound underneath.
I see adults anywhere in California by secure video.
Counseling since 1998. California LMFT since 2008.
Probation-approved anger-management and domestic-violence group work in San Diego; Executive Board, San Diego Domestic Violence Council (2005).
Individual Counseling for Adults
You don’t have to be in a marriage to get help. I work one-on-one with adults in California by video on ADHD, depression, anxiety, panic attacks, childhood trauma, addiction, and men’s issues.
Sessions are 53 to 60 minutes by secure video. Christian Counseling is available.
Looking for help for your marriage and family?
Start here. You do not have to wait for your spouse to go first. You can book couples counseling together, start on your own, or share this page with someone you love. If one of you is already pulling away, see marriage counseling when one spouse wants out.
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